Many who know me, know that I have an unabashed love for Ben Affleck. I used to try to keep it under wraps, but after his acceptance speech for Argo at the Oscars on Sunday, I am going public. When talking about his marriage, he said, “it is work, but it’s the best kind of work…and there’s no one I’d rather work with.” I love that. Yes, relationships (even the great ones) are often hard work. That is a message worth sharing.